PROTECT YOUR PEACE + P*SSY!

Protect: to maintain the status or integrity of; to keep safe from harm/injury/damage/destruction.
Peace: state of tranquility or quiet.
Pussy: a delicate, soft, sensitive, yet powerful flower; can be easily taken advantage of if not taken care of properly.

You are your longest and greatest commitment. The skin you’re in, the mind you possess, the life you live, your dreams/aspirations/goals/desires are all a testament to the person that you are and becoming.

So why do we allow people to come in and mess with our equilibrium?

Why do we allow people to come into or play a role in our lives that disturb our peace (and p*ussy sometimes)? I know I have allowed friends, family, and even the occasional fckboy to come into my space, my person, my life — and disturb my 2Ps.

So why do we do it?

Sis, I’m not sure of what your problem is? (And NOW would be the time to reflect on that!!) but I know what my problem is….I’ll admit it…

I HAVE A PROBLEM (a few actually, if I’m being completely honest). ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿพโ€โ™€๏ธ

  1. I’m too trusting of people. I assume that because I’m a good person that people won’t hurt me. I think that they’ll see the purity of my heart and want to be better people.
  2. I get attached (quickly) and when I get hurt, I blame myself. I think that it’s me. I question what I could have done better/over/instead to have guarded myself, to have guarded my peace.
  3. I always put myself last. I allow people to have the upper hand/control/get their way/get the last word in. Because I know that I can get over things.

Being this readily available, open, and vulnerable with people has left me hurt and scarred. But I know that I am strong and I can get through things, so I take getting battered, broken, and used- because I know that I can get through………(PROBLEMATIC AF, I know ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿพโ€โ™€๏ธ) 

I know this about myself…I know that it’s not my fault (at least not ALL my fault), and that’s the hardest part…KNOWING and STILL thinking that it is my fault and disturbing my own peace over it.

So now I’ve told you that & you’ve reflected over your problem(s)
…and you’re like “Nadra, what do I do now?”

YOU PROTECT YOUR PEACE.
YOU PROTECT YOUR PUSSY.
YOU PROTECT YOUR SANITY.
YOU PROTECT YOU.

Your peace is vital to every aspect of your life: your happiness, your mental health, your academics, your physical health, your relationships, your goals. EVERYTHING.

Your pussy is to you as the core is to the Earth: the basis of who we are as women. This is a part of you that defines your womanhood.**

Both of these gems need to be protected with great care!!
If that means taking a break from toxic people, cutting people off, practicing celibacy, praying more, being more selective of who/what you let into your life, or simply just focusing on you as the focal point of your life….let that be how you heal.

Take that time to heal. Take that break. It’s important. YOU ARE IMPORTANT.

& even if you don’t believe it (because sometimes I don’t believe it about myself), you are……we are important!

And we deserve to have our peace and our pussies PROTECTED ๐Ÿ˜ฝ๐ŸŒธโœจ

[Princesses, let’s talk about this…feel free to comment & let me know your thoughts <3!]

-PrincessJ.

(shoutout to my girls Trevรก, Dyani, and Brianna whose sisterhood and never ending support inspired this post — through our group chat pictured above!! ๐Ÿฆ‹๐Ÿฆ„๐Ÿ”ฎ)

 

** As a cisgendered woman, this is how I have experienced/expressed my womanhood. I am in no way trying to hurt or negate anyone that identifies as a woman from this post or anything else that they experience or define their womanhood as, but this is how I feel. No harm meant if anyone feels differently. **

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